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Motivational Psychology & Procrastination Resolution

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    FAIL more! Even at being sexy ;)

    Failing means you're trying new stuff & LEARNING IS LIVING.
    The many faceted flip-side of failure?

    • succeeding to your own definition
    • achieving what you set out too
    • winning, gaining, appreciating
    • teaching, leading, positive role-modelling
    • using your intelligences
    • feeling happy 

         
    Sexy's more than just the 'sniggerable" intimate body parts.
    The longer-lasting depths of sexy are gained through:

    • trust, honesty, respect 
    • the energy & courage of maintaining eye contact
    • shared experience
    • acts of service in pre-emptively caring for another 


    Failing is a helpful process of elimination showing us what we don't want.
    Trying new stuff in every sphere of our lives produces incremental improvements and positive changes. 
    Failing at being sexy produces laughter.
    Sounds like the opposite of sad frustration to me.
    Winning ;) 

    Much kindness, and much respect
    from Sharee
    Qualified in Psychology

    #3weekBRAINbootcamp for intelligent Adults
      

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    Here's the "Easy" on Fixing your Response to Stress:
    TRY IT

     

    YOU and I are only ever as good professionally as we are personally. 

    We've all got "that friend" that soars professionally but is a train-wreck personally true. BUT ... imagine how that friend could really soar if they actually had it together internally and externally.

    Now back to you.
    Have you ever looked at your default responses to stress? 

     

    Have you ever turned off your 'autopilot' and actively chosen to respond, rather than react when your buttons are being pushed?

    If you've had enough of being triggered by external forces & losing your cool, here's an "easy" fix:
    instead of letting your blood boil, choose instead to physically smile, just a little bit.
    Huh?
    Yes, I suggest you smile as your first response.

    Why?
    It commences a whole new chemical reaction inside your brain which affects your mind ... positively. THEN we’re each able to focus on thinking of a solution rather than getting bogged down in being pissed off & wasting time & energy in the heat of the moment.


    Well ... it sounds simple, but remembering to choose to smile is the key.

    Think its hogwash?
    TRY IT.
    For a week.

    If you immediately recognise the smarts of this approach but aren't sure you can remember to use it ... join in the 3 Week Brain Bootcamp starting on 1st of July.
    Here's a link for more info. But be QUICK: closing tomorrow.

    Whatever choice you make, please, try choosing a smile FIRST.

    Come and tell me how this goes for you?

    Kindness from Sharee Campbell                      

    Qualified in:
    Psychology
    Mentoring




    Feedback from 3 week Brain Bootcamp:

     

    “made me accept me for who I am, warts and all”

     

    “rather than beat myself up or regret choices, I now see the lessons”

     


    "I finally feel like I've got my shit  together"

     

    “I find myself more gentle & realistic with my self-expectations & with my expectations of others too”

     

    “I am much more forgiving of myself and others because of my new outlook on life”

     

    “less stress, more relaxation though I’m working just as hard”

     

    “I feel I am more capable of genuine communication”

     

    “feeling more loving towards my family and people in general”

     

    “fear and self-doubt are not a worry anymore”

     

    “my thinking is far wiser”

     

    “I’m less judgemental”

     

    “pushing my boundaries is in itself making me stronger & happier”

     

    “I’m more productive at work”

     

    “if only the rest of the world could catch on to this, how different life would be”

    “I’m not worried about ridiculous fear-based bullshit happening any more”

    "my kids are learning how to get themselves together through copying my new behaviours"

      

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    Lighten Your Mental Load

    Progress is hindered when we're weighed down carrying excess "stuff" that we simply do not need in our thinking patterns, nor in our behaviours.
    You KNOW the wisest way forward is to stop and shed some of the stuff you don't need to carry anymore. 

    How do you shed it?
    You share it. 
    "Feel it to heal it".
    With another person you feel you can trust. 

    Are you:

    • working too many hours
    • regretting being grumpy
    • dissatisfied with relationships
    • surrounded by 'simpletons'
    • impatient
    • unkind
    • worried, anxious, or a bit scared


    All of the stuff you promised your Self you were not going to be, do, think, or have when you grew into an adult. IF you've grown into some of that, you CAN change  / grow / evolve from here. 

    SHARE your thinking. With those that know you.
    Or in a small private online growth group of The 3 week BRAIN Bootcamp.

    Either way, lighten your load and maintain or grow your mental strength.

    Health IS our greatest wealth. 

    Much respect to you,

    and much kindness

    from Sharee Campbell

    Qualified in Psychology
    Qualified in Business Development Management
    Qualified in Coaching & Mentoring

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    You know enough to just get on with it. Not next week. Now.
    April 2017
     

    What exactly are you waiting for before you start?  

    There's likely to always be something else that just "comes up" that stops you until you've developed some momentum.

    How much have you learnt in the last few years? Yes sooooo much.
    Do you really need to keep choosing yet another course from yet another expert? 
    Isn't it time you backed yourself and just started?

                           

    Now is the 'perfect' time.

    Have you used youtube as a perfect source of education yet? You can learn pretty much anything here, and choose between hundreds of people to find your best learning style. 

    How about you make a deal with yourself to START. And to keep growing your skills dedicate 2 hours to learning on youtube every week. It's free. It's highly specific. It'll save you time and money so you can reinvest those resources in your business. 

    No this isn't 'shooting myself in the foot' as an educator. I'd rather you were living your purpose and making genuine headway on your dreams and goals too. Big picture we're all in this together, and together we are mighty.

    Start. It. Now.
            

    Much respect to you,

    and much kindness

    from Sharee Campbell

    P.S. If you really can't quite pull it all together into a coherent manner to start using all that you've learnt over the last few years. Get in touch & we'll gain you clarity so you can focus on the completion you so very deserve.

    Qualified in Psychology
    Qualified in Business Development Management
    Qualified in Coaching & Mentoring


    Ph 045 048 1969


                                             


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    "I wish I'd met & talked to you years ago. I expect you'd have saved me from going out of business the first time! I didn't know what motivational psychology was until working with you. Thanks to you I'm now organised with time, make sure I complete before moving on, and my attention span is ten times longer than it used to be. You've set me straight & my sense of purpose is now honed & fulfilling. SF".

    "You're boss AF. LL"
     
    Any questions, get in touch.

    Start with my Workshop to lay your foundations of sorting out TIME and the concept of "BUY-IN" from others (whether in Business or personally). Your real gold is in the series of 2 months worth of 1 on 1 personal RE-SETting for the adult that you are. To immunise your brain and best use your emotional intelligence. 

    With much respect,
     
    And much kindness,
     
    Sharee

      

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    It's Like Life, simple ... but not easy

    March 2017

    Both your and my state of mind is a choice that comes from how we each choose to react at any given time: consciously and unconsciously.

    We each can choose to repeat ‘old’ patterns.  In a heated discussion I could choose to react with defensive aggression. This serves 2 purposes: 

    1) both parties know what to expect (this ego-based manner of conversing is modeled well as a 'norm' in our culture)

    2) creates more unhappiness (again, this is "normal" ... depression anyone?)

                                        
    Or

    I could choose to react with compassion & patience. I could listen. I could choose to understand that your displaced negative emotions are amplifying how you feel about your Self, not necessarily about me.
    To my friends, I do.
    To strangers, I do.
    To individuals I respect, I do.

    Have you considered that we all treat Others how we feel about ourselves at that moment in time? So if a person seems angry with you, they’re likely to be either angry with themselves or a situation they find themselves in.

    Replying with kindness. Choosing to smile gently whilst looking a person in the eye. Giving kind supportive body-language & words. THIS is the only behaviour we can ever change ... because it’s my own. Your own.
    Your OWN.

                                             
      
    Choosing to stay calm & gentle increases calm & gentle. In your self. In Others quietly watching, and eventually, in the person that you’re showing how to reach within their self to find their calm and gentle.
    Calm is the cradle of power.

    Choose to speak your thoughts with truth & kindness.
    If it’s hard to focus on what they are, close your eyes, put you hand on your heart, and speak your own knowledge coming from a caring place within your self.

    The more practice you get, the better you’ll get.
    Calm. Kind. Gentle. This is loving.

    Simple. Not easy 
            

    Much respect to you,

    and much kindness

    from Sharee Campbell

    Qualified in Psychology
    Qualified in Business Development Management
    Qualified in Coaching


    Ph 045 048 1969