Sharee Campbell of Evolva Group

Procrastination Resolution & Psychotherapy

  • You know enough to just get on with it. Not next week. Now.
    April 2017
     

    What exactly are you waiting for before you start?  

    There's likely to always be something else that just "comes up" that stops you until you've developed some momentum.

    How much have you learnt in the last few years? Yes sooooo much.
    Do you really need to keep choosing yet another course from yet another expert? 
    Isn't it time you backed yourself and just started?

                           

    Now is the 'perfect' time.

    Have you used youtube as a perfect source of education yet? You can learn pretty much anything here, and choose between hundreds of people to find your best learning style. 

    How about you make a deal with yourself to START. And to keep growing your skills dedicate 2 hours to learning on youtube every week. It's free. It's highly specific. It'll save you time and money so you can reinvest those resources in your business. 

    No this isn't 'shooting myself in the foot' as an educator. I'd rather you were living your purpose and making genuine headway on your dreams and goals too. Big picture we're all in this together, and together we are mighty.

    Start. It. Now.
            

    Much respect to you,

    and much kindness

    from Sharee Campbell

    P.S. If you really can't quite pull it all together into a coherent manner to start using all that you've learnt over the last few years. Get in touch & we'll gain you clarity so you can focus on the completion you so very deserve.

    Qualified in Psychology
    Qualified in Business Development Management
    Qualified in Coaching & Mentoring


    Ph 045 048 1969


                                             


    Feedback:

    "Your material is powerful and your calendar technique is amazing. I already feel far more productive, able, willing, and keen".
    S Brabazon
    Ink Slinger Success 
     
    "Thank you for giving far more than would be expected to ensure the successful outcomes of all stakeholders ... your organisational and teaching expertise provide practical insight into time-management. The pace and perfection of your coaching abilities are inspirational".
    B Franklin
    CEO of The esplanade
     
    "You have proven yourselves to be reliable, trustworthy, honest, adaptable, and consistent in supporting us in achieving excellent results. Thank you Sharee".
    J Johnstone
    The Cleansweep People
     
    "Recognising Leadership comes from the top, the filter-down effect has proved invaluable from our engagement of your 'Sales are Fun & Asking For Money is Easy" program. We implemented your provided templates to motivate more focused sales work and found it took us less time as well as providing higher revenue results.
    Implementing and measuring our incremental sales-successes has been a new and rewarding journey. We can now report our staff output has greatly improved because of your easy to follow sequential steps. The enthusiasm you offer is mirrored on the ground and we are converted raving fans".
    G Inglis
    CEO Hotel Leasing
     
    "The course was very informative and easy to understand, considering I have never embarked on Sales advice before. Receiving a written transcript after the course is a bonus I will keep reflecting back to as it will be immensely useful to our progression".
    M Bartell
    Recruitment for Hockey
     
    "Time is valuable and leverage is wise so meeting online was good ... lot of great strategy and insight into organising Time, with high value bringing in balance by using your calendar planner system. It was cool to attend, and not at all 'Salesy' as you focus on teaching the best outcome for each person involved in every transaction".
    P Luxford
    WP Genie
     

    "I'd like to recommend your genuinely caring and insightful approach of getting to the guts of an issue and asking questions that I'd never think of to answer. I'm so glad you asked! You boosted my healing when I was at the end of my tether & starting to think I'd be stuck in the past forever. I remain eternally grateful. MP".
     
    "I consider myself fortunate to be coached by you. You've given inspirational support, encouragement, and leadership. I greatly value your generous contribution to my personal growth. Sharing this journey has been an absolute pleasure. With gratitude & friendship. ZK".
     
    "Cultivating my inner strength through accessing my blocks and eliminating them one by one has unlocked my ability to lead my team properly in Business, and at home. I'm twice as effective as I was this time last month, and because I'm sticking to the plans & clarity you & I devised, I'll be twice as effective in another 6 months. These 3 months of working together have been incredibly productive & enjoyable. JB".
     
    "I wish I'd met & talked to you years ago. I expect you'd have saved me from going out of business the first time! I didn't know what motivational psychology was until working with you. Thanks to you I'm now organised with time, make sure I complete before moving on, and my attention span is ten times longer than it used to be. You've set me straight & my sense of purpose is now honed & fulfilling. SF".

    "You're boss AF. LL"
     
    Any questions, get in touch.

    Start with my Workshop to lay your foundations of sorting out TIME and the concept of "BUY-IN" from others (whether in Business or personally). Your real gold is in the series of 2 months worth of 1 on 1 personal RE-SETting for the adult that you are. To immunise your brain and best use your emotional intelligence. 

    With much respect,
     
    And much kindness,
     
    Sharee

      

  • It's Like Life, simple ... but not easy

    March 2017

    Both your and my state of mind is a choice that comes from how we each choose to react at any given time: consciously and unconsciously.

    We each can choose to repeat ‘old’ patterns.  In a heated discussion I could choose to react with defensive aggression. This serves 2 purposes: 

    1) both parties know what to expect (this ego-based manner of conversing is modeled well as a 'norm' in our culture)

    2) creates more unhappiness (again, this is "normal" ... depression anyone?)

                                        
    Or

    I could choose to react with compassion & patience. I could listen. I could choose to understand that your displaced negative emotions are amplifying how you feel about your Self, not necessarily about me.
    To my friends, I do.
    To strangers, I do.
    To individuals I respect, I do.

    Have you considered that we all treat Others how we feel about ourselves at that moment in time? So if a person seems angry with you, they’re likely to be either angry with themselves or a situation they find themselves in.

    Replying with kindness. Choosing to smile gently whilst looking a person in the eye. Giving kind supportive body-language & words. THIS is the only behaviour we can ever change ... because it’s my own. Your own.
    Your OWN.

                                             
      
    Choosing to stay calm & gentle increases calm & gentle. In your self. In Others quietly watching, and eventually, in the person that you’re showing how to reach within their self to find their calm and gentle.
    Calm is the cradle of power.

    Choose to speak your thoughts with truth & kindness.
    If it’s hard to focus on what they are, close your eyes, put you hand on your heart, and speak your own knowledge coming from a caring place within your self.

    The more practice you get, the better you’ll get.
    Calm. Kind. Gentle. This is loving.

    Simple. Not easy 
            

    Much respect to you,

    and much kindness

    from Sharee Campbell

    Qualified in Psychology
    Qualified in Business Development Management
    Qualified in Coaching


    Ph 045 048 1969


                                              

  • This is Why Speaking Your Thinking Is Vital

    March 2017

    1) to attract Others that 'buy into' what you're doing
    2) to repel Others that it's not the right time for 
    3) to own your own state of Being ... too woowoo?


    'Scuse my manners, sorry, I didn't even say "hello"! 



    Sharee here, thank you for being here too :)
    I'm recognising that Time is our mutually scarcest resource so I accidentally jump-started.
    I remember bunny-hopping when learning to drive too. Hmmm ... sensing a pattern ;)  Thankfully it doesn't take long to settle in to smooth-starts. 

    Mostly these days Time is my friend. I've worked for years on solidifying this relationship.
    Have you pretty-much mastered your own time too?

    It took over a decade for me to find my voice when I became an adult, & a part of that was starting to master my own time. Another part ...growing the courage to say 'no' ... initially gently, quietly, and not with much conviction. Ha! I was such a 'Polyanna Pushover'.

    Now (as my lovely husband would attest too) ... I have the courage to speak my peace, and my piece, to match my values. It helps me help better. 

    Why bother to speak our thinking? 

    • we grow
    • to uplift Self; and Others
    • we have to listen better when we share our own thoughts 
    • to learn to respect our own emotions & our state of Being
    • to generate a groundswell of being surrounded by like-minds of doing better, giving more, learning, sharing, living now, celebrating as we go and as we grow ;)
    • even to hinder the "mob-mentality" that arises when many people together DON'T speak up when something is disrespectful
    • to tap into our innate Self-Leadership that may have been 'schooled' out of us (dare I say "conformity pie anyone?")



    Core ingredients to bake a Self-Leadership cake: 

    • write down your Values that are based on Respect
    • share your Values
    • accept Others have differing values (& that that's not innately wrong or bad)
    • behave according to your Values - as often as you can ... like any other training, the more you use the muscle, the stronger it grows. 



    Why get cooking in Self-Leadership?

    Living according to our unique values attracts the energy of alignment ... hey ... stay with me here in 'analogy-kitchen' ... 
    ... and when we're in alignment things flow.
    Time becomes irrelevant.
    Our best efforts are easy, and coherent. We finish what we start!
    This ease of productivity attracts those we're wanting to gain from what we each do.
    It's a circularity of continuous flow. 

    Do you know how electricity can be harnessed from moving air particles? 
    What about how you can speak instantaneously online (or phone) to a friend on the other side of the world with a mere half a second delay (if at all), when it takes days to fly there?
    Me neither (well not succinctly) ...
    I'm saying, if it works for you, keeps you growing, and adds to your happiness and fulfillment, believe what you like, live accordingly, and speak your Peace

    YOUR Peace is nearly as important to me as my own. Self-first in an empathetic way.



    Believe what you like.


    Much respect to you,

    and much kindness

    from Sharee

    sharee@evolvagroup.com

    Ph 045 048 1969 

  • Staying motivated is so much easier when we're Enjoying! Use a few of these ...

    Feb 2017

    How do we enjoy more? 

    1. Know what you need & want
    2. Enable Others to get what they need & want
    3. Communicate clearly throughout the processes

    Effective communication starts with using your 'caring smarts' more than your IQ. Grow your EQ (Emotional intelligence Quotient). Here are some 'easy-green' to 'black-run' ideas for you to try. Seriously give a new approach a sincere try for a week and notice the improvement in your good luck, and overall results from your endeavours.
    Some you're already using, bravo! Try and upskill:

    1. look that person in the eyes when you're listening & talking (or the eyes in the room when presenting)
    2. listen without forming your responses and 'storing them' in rebuttal (difficulty level 9, reward level 10)
    3. or ... at least listen longer before responding
    4. focus on that conversation & remain present for it
    5. choose to respond instead of react (you ARE an adult now)
    6. choose to 'allow' the other person their ideas & opinions ... why wouldn't you if no other person is in immediate danger (have you tried this recently?)
    7. offer a solution if you can ... instead of stringing things out & wasting time
    8. empathy is like a muscle, use it and it becomes stronger and gains greater purpose
    9. ... and the good old "pretend you're in the position of the person you're talking with" to create deeper empathy

    How you think is how you feel. How you feel is how your life is. Your life. You choose.
     

    Create your own luck by growing your EQ.

    Let me know how you go?

    Much respect to you,

    and much kindness

    from Sharee

    sharee@evolvagroup.com

    Ph 045 048 1969


     

  • Thank you for such a successful year: living my purpose is also thanks to you.

    Jan 17 

    What happens when you push off when standing on a soggy bank? You don’t get much trajectory in leaping forward & belly-flop.

    Right?
    Think of enduring Cognitive Ability & Mental Peace as muscles. Effective exercise reduces the “flabby”.

    I’ve been sequentially cross-referencing stats from 2016 to solidify 2017’s launching platform for Evolva Group. The most popular post that triggered the highest number of small business owners to work with me was about normalizing the creation of mental-wealth through Self-Leadership.

    On the one hand I understand that everyone loves hearing about mental tools & mechanisms to both enjoy, and sometimes even ‘cope’ with the “Small Business Journey”. On the other hand, gaining Self-Leadership was surprisingly effective in resonating so strongly: personally and professionally it seems.

    Part of my educated & experienced role in the world is supporting Self-leadership through creating greater Sales-volume for those of us as Business Owners. This involves creating confidence, dissolving old-blocks, fears, and behaviors that are self-sabotaging, and integrating this with the practical approach of creating more time to implement a proven respectful step by step fully templated system.

    Gaining Self Leadership ranges from a half-day Workshop to a 10-week personalised program of motivational psychology. Each one of us is different so there’s no “right way” to start. 75% of the individuals I work with start with our monthly Workshop. Of this number a further 62% continue in developing enduring Self-Leadership through resolving previous mental-blocks once and for all.

    Incase you're wondering, the remaining 25% start on Personal Leadership outside of what they're doing professionally (so don't need to learn Sales as an integral part of their Businesses). 

    In the past 4 years not a single person has requested a refund.









     

    You know by now that I don’t aspire to be any kind of guru. You recognise that I’m living my educated purpose contributing to the conversation around gaining Self-Leadership with clarity, purpose, and completion.

    My procrastination-resolution approach might not work for everyone, at any given time. Some communications are right for you right now, some will float to the surface of your mind later.

    Time is the currency that we all have that is the same. What is your system to use it wisely?

    Perception of our enjoyment, validity, status, & choices within that Time, are the differentials. We all know that how we perceive is the reality we live in right. Right? Having more money means that I can fix things when they’re broken, buy things when I need them and generally not worry about unexpected costs. More than anything, having extra money gives peace of mind.

    Having proper cashflow reduces stress.

    It’s easier to remain open-minded. Trusting the flow.

    Learning to release the invisible ‘fear’ that tightens physically, mentally, yes let’s go there ... spiritually. Living in fear is restrictive. Some of you will have physical manifestations of that fear surfacing. Before it gets to ‘stress heart attack’ I implore you to do something proactive about it?  

    To those of you that stood up to gain the elusive clarity you’ve been searching for to direct your Self & your Business with purpose, thank you for working with me in our 10 week one-on-one Self-Leadership program in 2016.

    To those of you that gained all you needed from participating in our monthly Workshop to implement effective Time-management, plan your year ahead efficiently, gain a proven blueprint for increasing the volume of your cashflow, and start removing the layers of conditioning that held you back in fear; it’s been a pleasure lifting the veil off from over your eyes and assisting the growth of your optimum Self-Leadership.

    Thank you also to those of you that gain enough merely from reading my weekly share communication and send feedback of what you’re gaining.  

    To those of you happily in the background, I hope I’ve been useful to you. That’s certainly my intention.

    Wishing for us each a year of reliable vitality in great health ... this is where our wealth is! Sending you good health in every sphere of your life ... especially mentally.

    (Next small step clickable).

    Respectfully,
    Peacefully
    & Supportively yours,

    Sharee

    Procrastination resolutionist